I still remember the first time I was promoted into a senior leadership position and all of a sudden had a couple of my best friends reporting to me. Weird, awkward, difficult, and challenging are all words that immediately come to mind to describe that situation. Not fun, not desirable, not collaborative, and definitely not a few other words I wish I could have used instead!

Much of my executive coaching these days is with Next Generation leaders who either were recently promoted or are currently being considered for promotions. One of the greatest challenges these NextGen leaders face seems to be managing the people who used to be their peers, and in many cases used to be people they considered to be close friends. Worse than that actually is trying to manage the people who didn’t get those promotions because they may have some added resistance thinking they would have been great fits for the jobs. Read more ›








